Monthly Archive: April 2005

Tips from Louise Hay:

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Stop all criticism:  Criticism never changes a thing.  Refuse to
criticize yourself.  Accept yourself exactly as you are.  Everybody
changes.  When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative.  When
you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.

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Don’t scare yourself:   Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. 
It’s a dreadful way to live.   Find a mental image that gives you
pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary
thought to a pleasure thought.

3.  Be gentle and kind and patient:   Be gentle with yourself.  Be kind to yourself.  Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking.  Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.

4. 
Be kind to your mind:   Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts. 
Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts.  Gently change the
thoughts.

5. 
Praise yourself:   Criticism breaks the inner spirit.  Praise builds it
up.  Praise yourself as much as you can.  Tell yourself how well you
are doing with every little thing.

6. 
Support yourself:   Find ways to support yourself.  Reach out to
friends, and allow them to help you.  It is being strong to ask for
help when you need it.

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Be loving to your negatives:   Acknowledge that you created them to
fulfill a need.  Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill
those needs.  So. lovingly release the old negative patterns.

8. 
Take care of your body:   Learn about nutrition.  What kind of fuel
does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality?  Learn about
exercise.  What kind of exercise can you enjoy?  Cherish and revere the
temple you live in.

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Mirror work: Look into your own eyes often.  Express this growing
sense of love you have for yourself.   Forgive yourself looking into
the mirror.  Talk to your parents looking into the mirror.  Forgive
them, too.  At least once a day, say: “I love you, I really love you!”

10. 
LOVE YOURSELF – DO IT NOW!   Don’t wait until you get well or lose the
weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship.  Begin NOW –
do the best you can.

From Alan Cohen:

Recognize what you would like to receive from other people, and then give it to yourself.

Reframe
your experiences to find the blessing rather than the problem. Then you
will become the master of your world, rather than its victim.

A good relationship is not the reward for your suffering, but the natural result of what you learned from it.

For
every sin you can find about your life, God can find a way to forgive
it. For every way you have separated yourself from love, compassion
reminds you that you have never for a moment been outside of love’s
embrace.

Drama is a choice.  So is peace.

Wherever you
stand is holy ground. Wherever there is life, the ground is holy, and
life is everywhere. The question is, are you in it?

Love was
never meant to feel weird. Fear binds the heart and love releases it.
In a world of darkness, the light is not a threat, but our doorway
home. The more we grow comfortable with our birthright to love, the
more we will live in its embrace, until it becomes our abiding
condition. This month would be an excellent month to begin.

Friendships
are not accidents that happen to us when we are lucky, but gifts of
love that we accept by opening our hearts to the love that another
person wants to share with us.

A good relationship is not too
good to be true. It is good enough to be true. Everything good is true,
and relationships are an avenue to celebrate how good it can get.

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A PRAYER FOR PERFECT HEALING

Right now I recognize One Life.
I choose to see this Life as Love,
Wisdom and Compassion.
I know God is complete in every way.
God being all there is, means I am part
Of the completeness, the perfection, the wisdom.
I know every fiber of my being
resonates with the Divine.
This living Spirit Almighty
is the substance of which I am.
The Infinite Presence
is my strength and my support.
I need not look outside
for any comfort or reassurance.
The loving Spirit is within.
As I speak this word for perfect healing,
I know there is power in these words.
There is power in the vibration
and it cannot and does not return void.
I know the truth about myself is Wholeness.
I know the Spirit within never tires,
never grows weary,
but is always ready to express fully.
I am in alignment with the desire
of Spirit to express.
I see myself perfectly healed
and moving about freely.
I know there is no challenge too large
which Divine Intelligence cannot surmount.
This Divine Presence is what I am created of.
So with confidence I listen and hear exactly
what God’s next step of evolution is for me.
With confidence and open eyes
I move forth to my continual good,
knowing I am never alone,
Loving hands will guide me
because the light of God
always shines within me.

Every image of confusion is released from my mind.
My thoughts now entertain and reflect the Divine.
The Divine within me is Wholeness.
I accept this Wholeness in every organ, tissue, cell,
function, and every action continually renewing.
My life is healed NOW.
Godspeed works through my life.
I am aware of whatever I need to know and do.
Knowing I am not alone in my experience,
I experience inner Peace,
inner calm, inner understanding.
I let go of any bitterness, anger or resentment
that I may have been harboring,
allowing Divine tranquility to fill my whole being.
In gratitude, I give thanks,
for these words I have spoken are the Truth.
I give thanks for the wonderful
and fulfilling life I am enjoying.
I am grateful to be surrounded by Love.
Thank you Father-Mother-God,
for being my strength, courage,
comfort and guidance,
always being closer to me than my own thoughts.
Right now I let go of the past
and choose to experience life
fully in the present moment.
In letting go, it makes room for the new.
All that is left is the Truth.

– Dr. Christian Sorensen

A great nation is like a great man: When he makes a mistake, he realizes it. Having realized it, he admits it. Having admitted it, he corrects it. He considers those who point out his faults as his most benevolent teachers. He thinks of his enemy as the shadow that he himself casts. If a nation is centred in the Tao, if it nourishes its own people and doesn’t meddle in the affairs of others, it will be a light to all nations in the world.
– Lao Tzu – Source: Tao Te Ching, Chapter 61

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If a country develops an economic system that is based on how to pay for the war, and if the amounts of fixed capital investment that are apparent are tied up in armaments, and if that country is a major exporter of arms, and its industrial fabric is dependent on them, then it would be in that country’s interests to ensure that it always had a market. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is clearly in the interests of the world’s leading arms exporters to make sure that there is always a war going on somewhere.
– Marilyn Waring – Source: Documentary ‘Who’s Counting’, based on her book ‘Counting for Nothing’

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Evil when we are in its power is not felt as evil but as a necessity, or even a duty.
– Simone Weil

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It has been a stressful week, but I’ll get through it.  My Kayla is, as always, loving, supportive, wonderful, beautiful, and more.

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Only after the last tree has been cut down,
Only after the last river has been poisoned,
Only after the last fish has been caught,
Only then will you find money cannot be eaten.
– Cree Prophecy

It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.
– Marcus Annaeus Seneca, 3 B.C. -65 A.D., Roman Philosopher/Dramatist/Statesman

An ulcer is an unkissed imagination taking its revenge for having been jilted. It is an undanced dance, an unpainted watercolor, an unwritten poem.
– John Ciardi

I always believe that it is much better to have a variety of religions, a variety of philosophies, rather than one single religion or philosophy.  This is necessary because of the different mental dispositions of each human being.  Each religion has certain unique ideas or techniques, and learning about them can only enrich one’s own faith.
– Dalai Lama – 1961

The search for the meaning of life isn’t a search at all; it is simply a futile mission to validate the illusion of self.  There appears to be a hidden meaning to life only because the form we are manifesting as has the ability to create a self which can ask what it is.
– Carson’s Commentary

Hatred does not cease through hatred at any time.
Hatred ceases through love. This is an unalterable law.
– Buddha

Why not go out on a limb? That’s where the fruit is.
– Will Rogers

Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?
– Sai Baba

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A very successful lawyer parked his brand new Lexus in front of the office, ready to show it off to his colleagues. As he got out, a truck came along, too close to the curb, and completely tore off the driver’s door of the Lexus.

The counselor immediately grabbed his cell phone, dialed 911, and it wasn’t more than 5 minutes before a policeman pulled up. Before the cop had a chance to ask any questions, the lawyer started screaming hysterically.

His Lexus, which he had just picked up the day before, was now completely ruined and would never be the same, no matter how the body shop tried to make it new again.

After the lawyer finally wound down from his rant, the cop shook his head in disgust and disbelief.

“I can’t believe how materialistic you lawyers are,” he said. “You are so focused on your possessions that you neglect the most important things in life.”

“How can you say such a thing?” asked the lawyer.

The cop replied, “Don’t you even realize that your left arm is missing? It got ripped off when the truck hit you.”

“My God!” screamed the lawyer, “WHERE’S MY ROLEX?”

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While attending a Marriage Seminar dealing with communication, Tom and his wife Grace listened to the instructor, “It is essential that husbands and wives know the things that are important to each other.” He addressed the man, “Can you describe your wife’s favorite flower?” Tom leaned over, touched his wife’s arm gently and whispered, “It’s Pilsbury, isn’t it?”

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Once a government is committed to the principle of silencing the voice of opposition, it has only one way to go, and that is down the path of increasingly repressive measures, until it becomes a source of terror to all its citizens and creates a country where everyone lives in fear.
– Harry S Truman

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The Framers of the Bill of Rights did not purport to “create” rights. Rather, they designed the Bill of Rights to prohibit our Government from infringing rights and liberties presumed to be preexisting.
– Justice William J. Brennan, 1982

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When shall it be said in any country of the world, my poor are happy, neither ignorance or distress is to be found among them; my jails are empty of prisoners, my streets of beggars; the aged are not in want, the taxes not oppressive; the rational world is my friend because I am friend of its happiness. When these things can be said, then may that country boast of its constitution and government.
– Thomas Paine

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OK, I’ve not been talking enough.  I only have more of the same to say — Kayla and I are happier than either of us could have imagined, and we’re planning our re-handfasting (WITH Civil Ceremony this time) to take place on November 6.  Any subscriber to my blog is welcome to attend, just let us know you’re coming.

We are discovering many things together, and I am not at liberty to discuss what Kayla is discovering.  I guess that is to say, unless you ask her, it’s none of yer bizness.

But at any rate, we’re doing lots together, talking and talking and talking like the absolute closest of friends, and feel very happy when we’re together even during our worst days.  What more can you ask for in a marriage?

Feel free to email me at zaivalananda@yahoo.com if you want to talk about more stuff.

We now return you to your regularly-scheduled series of quotations.

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All those who seek to destroy the liberties of a democratic nation ought to know that war is the surest and shortest means to accomplish it.
– Alexis de Tocqueville

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Throughout the history of the United States, war has been the primary impetus behind the growth and development of the central state. It has been the lever by which presidents and other national officials have bolstered the power of the state in the face of tenacious popular resistance.
– Bruce D. Porter

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Allow the President to invade a neighboring nation, whenever he shall deem it necessary to repel an invasion, and you allow him to do so, whenever he may choose to say he deems it necessary for such a purpose — and you allow him to make war at pleasure. If today, he should choose to say he thinks it necessary to invade Canada, to prevent the British from invading us, how could you stop him? You may say to him, ‘I see no probability of the British invading us’ but he will say to you, ‘Be silent; I see it, if you don’t.’
– Abraham Lincoln

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If they do it, it’s terrorism, if we do it, it’s fighting for freedom.

Anthony Quainton, U.S. Ambassador to Nicaragua, 1984 – to a group of
concerned U.S. citizens when asked to explain the difference between
U.S. government actions in Nicaragua and the violence it condemns as
terrorism elsewhere in the world.

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It is in the nature
of imperialism that citizens of the imperial power are always among the
last to know–or care–about circumstances in the colonies.
– Bertrand  Russell

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The
president has adopted a policy of ‘anticipatory self-defense’ that is
alarmingly similar to the policy that imperial Japan employed at Pearl
Harbor, on a date which, as an earlier American president said it
would, lives in infamy. Franklin D. Roosevelt was right, but today it
is we Americans who live in infamy.
– Arthur  Schlesinger

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I
am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those
who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the
wounded who cry aloud for blood, more vengeance, more desolation. Some
of these young men think that war is all glory but let me say war is
all hell.
– William Tecumseh Sherman

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Why is this
man in the White House? The majority of Americans did not vote for him.
Why is he there? And I tell you this morning that he’s in the White
House because God put him there for a time such as this.
– Lt Gen William Boykin, speaking of G. W. Bush, New York Times, 17 October 2003

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God
gave the savior to the German people. We have faith, deep and
unshakeable faith, that he was sent to us by God to save Germany
– Hermann Goering, speaking of Hitler

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A
tyrant must put on the appearance of uncommon devotion to religion.
Subjects are less apprehensive of illegal treatment from a ruler whom
they consider god-fearing and pious. On the other hand, they do less
easily move against him, believing that he has the gods on his side.
– Aristotle

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If this were a dictatorship, it would be a heck of a lot easier – just so long as I’m the dictator.
– George W. Bush, 18 December 2000

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International law? I better call my lawyer; he didn’t bring that up to me.
– George W. Bush, 12 December 2003

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the United States, for generations, has sustained two parallel but
opposed states of mind about military atrocities and human rights: one
of U.S. benevolence, generally held by the public, and the other of
ends-justify-the-means brutality sponsored by counterinsurgency
specialists. Normally the specialists carry out their actions in remote
locations with little notice in the national press. That allows the
public to sustain its faith in a just America, while hard-nosed
security and economic interests are still protected in secret.
– Robert Parry, investigative reporter and author

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Our
men . . . have killed to exterminate men, women, children, prisoners
and captives, active insurgents and suspected people from lads of 10
up…. Our soldiers have pumped salt water into men to “make them
talk,” and have taken prisoners people who held up their hands and
peacefully surrendered, and an hour later. . . stood them on a bridge
and shot them down one by one, to drop into the water below and float
down, as examples to those who found their bullet-loaded corpses.

Philadelphia Ledger newspaper in 1901, from its Manila [Philippines]
correspondent during the US war with Spain for the control of the
Philippines

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The only place you and I disagree . . . is
with regard to the bombing. You’re so goddamned concerned about the
civilians, and I (in contrast) don’t give a damn. I don’t care.  .
. . I’d rather use the nuclear bomb. . . Does that bother you? I just
want you to think big.
– Richard Nixon to Secretary of State Henry Kissinger on the Watergate tapes

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This
business of burning human beings with napalm, of filling our nation’s
homes with orphans and widows, of injecting poisonous drugs of hate
into veins of peoples normally humane, of sending men home from dark
and bloody battlefields physically handicapped and psychologically
deranged, cannot be reconciled with wisdom, justice and love.
– Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.

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The
essence of oligarchical rule is not father-to-son inheritance, but the
persistence of a certain world-view and a certain way of life … A
ruling group is a ruling group so long as it can nominate its
successors… Who wields power is not important, provided that the
hierarchical structure remains always the same.
– George Orwell, 1984

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We
have pacified some thousands of the islanders and buried them;
destroyed their fields; burned their villages, and turned their widows
and orphans out-of-doors; furnished heartbreak by exile to some dozens
of disagreeable patriots; subjugated the remaining ten millions by
Benevolent Assimilation, which is the pious new name of the musket; we
have acquired property in the three hundred concubines and other slaves
of our business partner Sultan of Sulu, and hoisted our protecting flag
over that swag. And so, by the Providences of God – and the phrase is
the government’s, not mine – we are a World Power
– Mark Twain http://www.wilsonsalmanac.com/mark_twain_war_prayer.html

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A
Jap’s a Jap. There is no way to determine their loyalty… This coast
is too vulnerable. No Jap should come back to this coast except on a
permit from my office.
– General John L. DeWitt, head, Western Defense Command; before the US House Naval Affairs Subcommittee

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The
vested interests – if we explain the situation by their influence – can
only get the public to act as they wish by manipulating public opinion,
by playing either upon the public’s indifference, confusions,
prejudices, pugnacities or fears. And the only way in which the power
of the interests can be undermined and their maneuvers defeated is by
bringing home to the public the danger of its indifference, the
absurdity of its prejudices, or the hollowness of its fears; by showing
that it is indifferent to danger where real danger exists; frightened
by dangers which are nonexistent.
– Sir Norman Angell 1872 – 1967

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Iniquity,
committed in this world, produces not fruit immediately, but, like the
earth, in due season, and advancing by little and little, it eradicates
the man who committed it. …justice, being destroyed, will destroy;
being preserved, will preserve; it must never therefore be violated.
– Manu 1200 bc

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The powerful have invoked God at their side in this war, so that we
will accept their power and our weakness as something that has been
established by divine plan. But there is no god behind this war other
than the god of money, nor any right other than the desire for death
and destruction. Today there is a “NO” which shall weaken the powerful
and strengthen the weak: the “NO” to war.
– Subcomandante Marcos – Source: No to war, 2/16/03

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Statesmen will invent cheap lies, putting blame upon the nation that is
attacked, and every man will be glad of those conscience-soothing
falsities, and will diligently study them, and refuse to examine any
refutations of them; and thus he will by and by convince himself that
the war is just, and will thank God for the better sleep he enjoys
after this process of grotesque self-deception.
– Mark Twain – Source: Chronicle of Young Satan

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Each
of the Iraqi children killed by the United States was our child. Each
of the prisoners tortured in Abu Ghraib was our comrade. Each of their
screams was ours. When they were humiliated, we were humiliated. The
U.S. soldiers fighting in Iraq – mostly volunteers in a poverty draft
from small towns and poor urban neighborhoods – are victims just as
much as the Iraqis of the same horrendous process, which asks them to
die for a victory that will never be theirs.
– Arundhati Roy –
Source: Arundhati Roy, “Tide? Or Ivory Snow? Public Power in the Age of
Empire,” 8/24/04
http://www.democracynow.org/static/Arundhati_Trans.shtml

Not as tyrants have we come, but as liberators.
– Adolf  Hitler, 1938

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An evil exists that threatens every man, woman, and child of this great nation. We must take steps to ensure our domestic security and protect our homeland.
– Adolph  Hitler : In 1933, Hitler used the burning of the Reichstag as a pretext to push through emergency decrees suspending the basic civil liberties of German citizens. The “emergency” decrees remained in effect until the fall of the Third Reich in 1945.

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Now I shall ask you to imagine how
Men under discipline of death prepare for war.
There is much more to it than armament
. . . and for a while they join a terrible equality;
Are virtuous, self-sacrificing, free;
And so insidious is this liberty
That those surviving it will bear
An even greater servitude to its root:
Believing they were whole, while they were brave;
That they were rich because their loot was great;
That war was meaningful because they lost their friends

– Homer – Source: War Music A verse translation of Books 16 – 19 of the Illiad by Christopher Logue. 1981. King Penguin.

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In modern war there is nothing sweet nor fitting in your dying. You will die like a dog for no good reason.
– Ernest  Hemingway

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So long as men worship the Caesars and Napoleons, Caesars and Napoleons will duly rise and make them miserable.
– Aldous  Huxley

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Another nation is made out to be utterly depraved and fiendish, while one’s own nation stands for everything that is good and noble. Every action of the enemy is judged by one standard – every action of oneself by another. Even good deeds by the enemy are considered a sign of particular devilishness, meant to deceive us and the world, while our bad deeds are necessary and justified by our noble goals, which they serve.
– Eric Fromm

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In the struggle of Good against Evil, it’s always the people who get killed.
– Eduardo Galeano

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What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans and the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under the name of totalitarianism or in the holy name of liberty and democracy?
– Mohandas Gandhi

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Strike against war, for without you no battles can be fought! Strike against manufacturing shrapnel and gas bombs and all other tools of murder! Strike against preparedness that means death and misery to millions of human beings! Be not dumb, obedient slaves in an army of destruction! Be heroes in an army of construction!.
– Helen Keller. – Source: Told to an audience at Carnegie Hall one year before the United States entered World War I. From ‘Declarations of Independence’ by Howard Zinn page 75

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Political language…is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind.
– George Orwell

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You can’t deny the other side don’t want to die anymore than we do.  What I’m trying to say is don’t they pray to the same God that we do?  And tell me how does God choose whose prayers does he refuse?Who turns the wheel, who throws the dice on the Day after tomorrow?
Lyrics: Day After Tomorrow – Tom Waits/Kathleen Brennan 2004

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Where is it written in the Constitution, in what article or section is it contained, that you may take children from their parents and parents from their children, and compel them to fight the battles of any war in which the folly and wickedness of the government may engage itself? Under what concealment has this power lain hidden, which now for the first time comes forth, with a tremendous and baleful aspect, to trample down and destroy the dearest right of personal liberty? Who will show me any Constitutional injunction which makes it the duty of the American people to surrender everything valuable in life, and even life, itself, whenever the purposes of an ambitious and mischievous government may require it? … A free government with an uncontrolled power of military conscription is the most ridiculous and abominable contradiction and nonsense that ever entered into the heads of men.
– Daniel Webster (1782-1852), US Senator Source: Speech in the House of Representatives, January 14, 1814

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The fetters imposed on liberty at home have ever been forged out of the weapons provided for defense against real, pretended, or imaginary dangers from abroad.
– James  Madison

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Don’t be taken in when they paternally pat you on the shoulder and say that there’s no inequality worth speaking of and no more reason to fight because if you believe them they will be completely in charge in their marble homes and granite banks from which they rob the people of the world under the pretence of bringing them culture. Watch out, for as soon as it pleases them they’ll send you out to protect their gold in wars whose weapons, rapidly developed by servile scientists, will become more and more deadly until they can with a flick of the finger tear a million of you to pieces.
– Jean-Paul Marat (May 24, 1743 – July 13, 1793), a Swiss-born scientist and physician

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Kings had always been involving and impoverishing their people in wars, pretending generally, if not always, that the good of the people was the object. This, our [1787] Convention understood to be the most oppressive of all Kingly oppressions; and they resolved to so frame the Constitution that no one man should hold the power of bringing this oppression upon us.
– Abraham  Lincoln – Source: in an 1848 letter to William Herndon

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The role of those who make peaceful revolution impossible by refusing to give up the priveleges and pleasures that comes from the immense profits of overseas investments. I’m convinced that if we are to get on the right side fo the world revolution, we as a nation must undergo a radical revolution of values. We must rapidly begin to shift from a thing-oriented society to a person-oriented society. When machines and computers, profit motives and property rights are considered more important than people; the giant triplets of racism, militarism, and economic exploitation are incapable of being conquered.
– Martin Luther  King – http://www.informationclearinghouse.info/article2564.htm

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All of us have heard this term ‘preventive war’ since the earliest days of Hitler. I don’t believe there is such a thing; and, frankly, I wouldn’t even listen to anyone seriously that came in and talked about such a thing.
– Dwight Eisenhower – Source: Bob Fitrakis and Harvey Wasserman, Bush and America’s Willing Executioners would be Guilty at Nuremberg, The Free Press (Columbus, Ohio), 3/2/03

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The minority, the ruling class at present, has the schools and press, usually the Church as well, under its thumb. This enables it to organize and sway the emotions of the masses, and make its tool of them.
– Albert Einstein – Source: letter to Sigmund Freud, 30 July 1932

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A people living under the perpetual menace of war and invasion is very easy to govern. It demands no social reforms. It does not haggle over expenditures for armaments and military equipment. It pays without discussion, it ruins itself, and that is an excellent thing for the syndicates of financiers and manufacturers for whom patriotic terrors are an abundant source of gain.
– Anatole France, pseudonym for Jacques Anatole Thibault (1844-1924)

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